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      <image:caption>Lara Clayman Therapist in Oakland</image:caption>
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      <image:title>About - Hi, I’m Lara an online therapist in Oakland California</image:title>
      <image:caption>As a client and therapist in Oakland, I know that finding a therapist can be rough.  I love talking to potential clients, friends and family about therapy and helping them navigate the system. No matter the pedigree, license or method, you have to trust and connect to your therapist for therapy to work.  I became a licensed clinical social worker to help people heal from pain inflicted by family, culture and systems and find new ways to move through the world without shame and suffering. I hold an intersectional lens, meaning I care about all of your identities, lineages, cultures and experiences. I use intake tools that are affirming and I seek to create safety with the people I work with by using language and strategies that are not pathologizing, blaming or oppressive. I have my own mixed ethnic and religious identities and am a POC with white privilege.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Hi, I’m Lara Clayman and I want to make this process as easy as possible for you. If you are interested in therapy, call or text 510-292-3817 or complete the form below to schedule a free 15-minute phone consultation to see if we are a good fit.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>And you’re also completely burnt out from trying to hold everything together during the Covid pandemic. You find yourself getting so angry with your parents and arguing with them in your head.  You can’t stop these thoughts and you don’t like how it feels. You get so triggered by even small things, and you can’t figure out how to manage your intense emotions. You’re disappointed in yourself that you haven’t been able to move on and frustrated that you keep expecting acknowledgement, acceptance or even praise for your accomplishments. Your parents have sacrificed so much to give you comfort and security in life, but you are unhappy and feel very guilty about it.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Anxiety Therapy for Multicultural Mental Health - How do you protect your and your family’s mixed racial identity?</image:title>
      <image:caption>You feel really protective over your kids, even fear for their safety in society because of their mixed racial identity.  You’re sad and terrified about the political climate, racialized violence, gun violence and so much more. You worry about your parents aging and wonder if you’ll be able to handle losing them.  This is stirring up feelings from childhood.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Anxiety Therapy for Multicultural Mental Health - Within your family and in the world, you are never quite sure of where you fit.</image:title>
      <image:caption>You’re either too much (fill in the blank) or not enough (fill in the blank).  At times you feel you have to defend your existence while not fully understanding your own mixed racial identity.  You remember the shock of being asked, “What are you?” (um, person?!) for the first time and want to protect your children from the pain of being othered.  You don’t feel equipped to have hard conversations with your kids about who they are and how others perceive them. The fear of how they will be hurt by the racism of people they know (and love) and those they don’t is a heavy weight and sadness you carry.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Anxiety Therapy for Multicultural Mental Health - Hi, I’m Lara. I am a trauma therapist in Oakland and I help second-generation clients who are exhausted from marginalization and feeling torn between multiple heritages to get relief from the emotional toll that fighting for self-preservation has taken on them.</image:title>
      <image:caption>All of you is welcome into the session.  You don't have to choose sides when it comes to your identities or cultures. Therapy is the first place where you will practice that and learn how to cope with the anxiety, depression, and burnout caused by being a second-generation or mixed race adult who longs to honor where they came from and feel successful and content with where they are.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Trauma Therapist Oakland - Hi, I’m Lara, I am a trauma therapist in Oakland and I help second-generation clients who are exhausted from marginalization and feeling torn between multiple heritages to get relief from the emotional toll that fighting for self-preservation has taken on them.</image:title>
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